My dose of reality is deep. On this very day, I realized who and what is important to me. My friendships that have been attained these past few years are seriously priceless to me. I have a lot of hommies, we catch up here and there but nothing serious. But this once chick, I definitely consider her a friend. She and I we met on the net. But the minute we met, it was just a match. She and I had a lot in common and when I needed to vent she was always there not only to listen but to offer some type of advice. She never made me feel like I was wasting her time. In actuality, she and I have seen each other only once but we catch up on a weekly basis. We’re always on the text, IM, e-mail etc.
In the past, I’ve never really been able to maintain friendships with women simply because things would get out of hands. Feelings would develop and next thing you know, we’re boning, and then the friendship is messed up for good. But nah, not this one. This chick and I, the only boning that’s gonna take place is if she and I are sucking on some chicken bones together. Other than that, we’re good. We know where we stand and the love we have developed for each other is genuine. I have a few important folks in my life but this chick, whenever I decide to get married or have a girlfriend; she’s going to remain part of my life. Wifey’s gonna have to understand that she and I are a special package and hopefully wifey will develop a friendship with her too so that we’re all on the same level.
Shawty, I know I don’t be expressing feelings to you but hope you know that you’re my shawty for life. Always going to remain special and hopefully soon we’ll get to kick it with each other. We’re running close to five years now and can’t wait to multiply that. I know you’re under a lot of stress with your mother being sick and sister acting up but I got your back love. Now, all you gotta do is find you a dude so you can leave them fingers alone…lol…J
Dom, you’re SPECIAL. t'es une copine superbe. I love you so incredibly much!!
2021-2022 Season Finale
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2 years ago
awww! ala cute, mademoiselle sa pret pou pran plas mwen wi lol...
ReplyDeletei no how u feel n yes let dem no wats going on and i will do de same bb lololololo
ReplyDeletewow, them fans of yours may not be too happy about that piece, you know how they can be.lol It's a beautiful thing to have such a relationship; very well expressed.
ReplyDeletethank you love, that's what friends are for. I love you too babe.
ReplyDeleteDom
I don't know of any wife or girlfriend who wouldn't be jealous of that especially when the friend you are not boning makes it a point to always call you babe. If you ask me, it is a form of cock blocking. Actually, let me rephrase that, I doubt she will like anyone that you are serious about to the point of marrying. She will fake it, but deep down there will be some jealousy. If she were just an innocent friend, she wouldn't make it a point to refer to you as babe. I wouldn't put up with that from my husband. When we are single, it is ok to have friends and to be there for one another. When you are in a relationship both your friend and you need to respect the relationship. Any friend of my man needs to know that my man and I are a package not the other way around. How can you truly be best friend with your wife when this girl and you have such a strong emotional bond? I bet you women complain that you do not open up to them? How can you when you have this crutch of a friend to open up to? If you ask me, this will cause serious marital problems. Emotional infidelity is the worse kind, and I would be danm if my husband has some emotional girlfriend that he is not boning. I rather he bones some random chick with no emotional connection than to have a codependent relationship with some other woman.
ReplyDeleteIf you ask me this dysfunctional friendship will only attract extremely competitive girls in your love life. A stable girl who is not in the mood to compete will have a hard time dealing with this surrogate girlfriend. You may not understand me now, but you will when you get older. You definitely wouldn't like it if your future wife or girlfriend wrote something like that about some other dude and the dude is calling her baby every chance he gets.
I have a few very good male friends but trust me we respect each other's relationship. I would never ever expect their girlfriends to think that we are one package and that I can call their man baby. They don't have to like me. They are not involved with me. Your wife or girlfriend doesn't have to like this girl at all. In fact, She needs to find herself a man and make him her bestfriend, so that you can have a healthier friendship.
Just my two cents. I am catching up reading some of your old blog. Hope you don't mind the prepective of an older woman.