Since I can’t seem to get my mind right today, i am going to blog about something that have plagued men throughout its existence. It’s height. Lol. For some reason women like height in men, I know plenty of females who would not even look at any man who was below six feet tall. I think its stupid to choose a life partner based on height but then again everyone is entitled to their preference regardless of how maddening their criteria is.
So one of my guys who is 5’9 asked this woman who was about 5’6 out, and she turned him down. She told one of our mutual friends that despite my boy’s exceptional traits and despite the fact that she thinks he’s awesome, she couldn’t see past his height. Now right after she turned him down, maybe a week later, she hooked up with this British lad who was about 6’4. Now i don’t think my boy mind the fact that she was interested in someone taller, but this dude treated her like crap, she had his baby and he walked out on her. To be honest with you, i don’t feel bad for her at all. I laugh every time she complains to one of my home girls. This woman chose height over character, and that is laughable to me. I feel sorry for her child because he’s going to suffer because his mom is another dumb black sister who prioritized the wrong things. Call me mean but i think people need to inject more thoughts in how life partners are chosen.
I know a lot of female who pretend like they know exactly what they’re looking for in a man but every time they meet that individual who meet their standards (criterion), they end up breaking up. And these females keep on dating the same individuals, I personally find that very stupid and immature. I just think that people need to change or update their standards as they progress through life’s journey. Things change and maybe your standards need to because if every guy you meet end up hurting you well then maybe something is wrong with you.
Here are some dumb criterion: height, cheve siwo, skin complexion, family history, status, and titles.
Dumb folks man.
ps: this doesn't only apply to women
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everything you just said is true. although i do like tall men but i don't put a limit on the issue. A GOOD MAN COMES IN DIFFERENT PACKAGES." i truly believe that. just because he's tall doesn't mean he will be a good husband or father. do i want someone who is going to make me happy or someone who will make me look good when i walk down the street with him. do i worry more about wht society thinks or finding true happiness. i think the media also plays a role in people's preferences. people base their preferences on what they see on tv.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with you on this one B. A lot of people choose beauty over character and then when shit hits the fan, they begin to complain and drive their friends crazy with their nonsense.
ReplyDeleteI have been in that situation where i turned down a great guy because i felt like he was too short and he also was too expressive. I ended up marrying a guy who pretended to care about me and on top of that he fathered 3 children out of wedlock. I wish i could go back and fix things but this guy, although he is single, he hates me for life.
I wish people would stop follwoing society's trends and let their heart guide them.
Good piece B.
Your short a$$ is always right. It reminds me of you and whats her name. lol. Good piece ex hubby.
ReplyDeleteI am tall and taller than most guys that I know. A lot of my shorter friends say that they will not date guys shorter than them. The reality is most guys are taller than them, so they can afford to say that. I always laugh and tell them that I can't afford to start making crazy statements like that.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is, I really do not like super tall guys. I know it's weird, but it's true. I like them my height or a little bit taller. If the guy is shorter, I do have one shallow criteria that I do not negotiate. He has have to be cute and dress nice. He also has to be very comfortable with the fact that I wear heels. He can not have a height complex, and start telling me to wear flats; ain't gonna happen.
One thing though, I really do not understand why shorter men seem to like taller women. A couple of weeks ago, I was at a party with this very short girl friend of mine and we on the dance floor dancing by ourselves. This really really short guy (since I am tall, there are some guys who are truly too short for me. Really!) came and ask me to dance. I was wondering, why didn't he ask her. Clearly I am towering over this guy. Afterward, my friend and I were laughing like crazy.
So at the same party, this other short guy came to talk to me and was saying how much he likes my height, and I said "so, tell me why do shorter guys like tall women?" He told me it is because when they walk in a room, they like to get attention and have all eyes on them, and that's a guaranteed if they are with a tall woman. That's the best explanation I got so far lol
PS1: Oh please, you know we're humans and we all have some kind of shallow criteria. I didn't see you mention weight. I am sure that it is a criteria for most men. It sure is for me, I know I don't like fat guys.
PS2: At the end of the day, it's all about chemistry.
I know I know, I need my own blog lol
-Sun
Jacmel,
ReplyDeletei do agree that they come in different packages yet a lot of people are misinformed. They're a bunch of followers and never want to explore different aspects of a being.
L-always
ReplyDeletei can't understand where you're coming from. I don't think he hates you, just wishes you were on a different planet.
Much luv though. Always good to read from yah.
Maggie
ReplyDeleteyou're an A$$. Send me some pics from the party woman.
How tall are you Sun? Would you date someone my height? 5'8 yet everything i touch or everyone i am with, i make 'em look 10 times better... holla @ your boi.
ReplyDeleteI could walk in a room and dance with the ugliest girl, once i walk away, every guy in there would sweat her. Thats just how i do. It's like i a walking make over machine... lol.
On the real though, i tend not to date outside of my size (weight wise) but i am not completely that shallow to think that these girls are bad people.
So danm conceited!!!! Wow, you're a mess B. But i think thats what make you stand out to most women though. I paid close attention to you on Friday and i could tell you didn't come in there to find women. You came in and walked straight to the bar and every girl in there was looking. What caught me by surprise is the fact that for the first time, you got on the dance floor and showed off your dance skills. You seemed to enjoy the reggae music a lot; its too bad you shoved that girl aside. She would have put it on you, could have been your breakfast. lol. Anyways, it was good to see you. I like this post. Give my condolensces to the rest of the crew.
ReplyDeleteps: do you always have to do that with your hair??? too cute.
5'8 huh? Whenever a guy gives any kind of measurement, I always subtract 2 inches. So that means you are really 5'6. Being 5'9 and always wearing heels at least 3 inches, that would make me 6 feet tall. When we go out, I would be at least 6 feet while you are 5'6.
ReplyDeleteSo would I date you? Depends. Are you cute enough? Are you a sharp dresser? Are you confident enough to walk in a room with me with all eyes on us? Are you confident enough to ask me to dance and dance with me while the room watches?
And for the weight thing, that's what I thought. so when you're pointing fingers at girls for wanting tall guys remember that you tend to stick to your own size (weight wise) lol
Damn, i should have posted my comment since 8 when i had the chance, now it seems that my thoughts are already expressed by the other readers.lol it's funny how Sun said that he has to be comfortable with her wearing heels, my ex actually had the nerve to tell me that if he comes to pick me up and i am wearing heels, he would leave me and go home. I will not give up my heels!!
ReplyDeleteI seem to attract a lot of short guys, and ive yet to meet one that is comfortable with his height, and yes, short guys always like tall women.Babe, you really got it like that huh? a walking make over machine??lol so damn confident!
Dom
How tall are you Sun? Would you date someone my height? 5'8 yet everything i touch or everyone i am with, i make 'em look 10 times better... holla @ your boi.
ReplyDeleteOH REALLY? IS THAT RIGHT? KILE WAP FEM LOOK 10X BETTER.TOO MANY TALL MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO ME. I NEED SOME 5'8s. I AM 5'4 BY THE WAY. YOU ARE VERY CONFIDENT MY BROTHER.
On the real though, i tend not to date outside of my size (weight wise) but i am not completely that shallow to think that these girls are bad people.
WHAT IS YOUR SIZE?
Belfanm
ReplyDeleteGlad you like the hair. I am thinking about keeping it that way. Maybe next time ma kite w pase men ladan.
For your info, i didn't shove her aside, i simply rejected the chick. I wanted to be alone and she was just invading my personal space. mwen pa gentan pou bagay sa yo.
Esperanza
ReplyDeleteI already made you look a lot better by approving this post. get a mirror, go to your pic folder, and look at a before pic and compare it to what you see in the mirror. Can't you tell the difference? lol...
As for my size, i like them your size...perfect!
Dom
ReplyDeleteSe pa mwen non ki di sa, se fanatik yo wi. lol
Min ou pa manke frekan.
ReplyDeleteTHERE COULD NEVER AND THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER ONE LIKE YOU. YOU ARE "THE ORIGINAL". NO ONE CAN COPY YOU. THE ZEROX MACHINE DENIED THE ACCESS FOR YOU TO BE COPIED. lol
As for my size, i like them your size...perfect!
Smart man gives smart answers. very good answer. i owe you for this answer. you pick. lol
P.S hope esperanza don't mind me stealing the answer to her question.
U R too much
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