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Monday, April 7, 2008

So there I was on the other line with my homegirl, this chick call me and I told her that I would have to call her back since I had someone else on the other line. I don’t know what she may have been going through that day but my oh my, the chick started screaming and yelling about a whole bunch of nonsense. She ended the conversation by telling me that she could do better and my response to her was ‘ok’ and we both hung up.

Now, me saying “ok” was the end of it for me. I didn’t expect her to call me back, text or e-mail. My ok meant the end of whatever she and I was trying to build. It meant that much to me because she said “she could do better” and to me the minute you realize that you can do better, you just pack up your shit and leave. I as a strong black brother, I don’t have the time to waste on shawties who cannot make up their minds so therefore once I am out, I am out.

So two days later, I am getting a text from this chick asking me ‘if it’s really over?”. I mean, how am I supposed to answer that question for someone who told me that she could do better. She agitated me by sending this text. I wasn’t the one who said I could do better, even though I possibly could, but I would never tell someone that. It’s not like she hurt my feelings by saying that because she and I don’t know each other all that well, so I couldn’t possibly be upset at her for saying it. What I was upset with is the aftermath. She somewhat expected me to still be at ease with her after she had said all of this and my thing is, why should I try to maintain a relationship with someone who has already realized that she could do better. It would make no sense in trying to force yourself into something that would not last anyway.

So now here are her reasons for thinking she could do better: I am always busy (I can’t help it), she’s not my priority (I don’t know you all that well to give you that much importance), she doesn’t believe in what I do (you met me promoting my shit, leave me the fuck alone if you can’t respect what I do) and she feels like I should be texting and calling every second of the day (shit, I don’t even call my folks that often, let alone someone I don’t even know like that…get a clue shawty)…

So it’s been a year and counting and I bet she’s still wondering if I will ever respond to her text messages. I guess you should have never said what you said, hope you have found better.

Poison man…a buffet of goodness…drop your responses ladies. I am very curious.

9 comments:

  1. lol, a buffet of goodness huh? It seems that women dont know how to use words with you!!! I guess they dont know that you're big on words, again, they seems to be learning the hard way...You have a lot going on babe, it may be hard for a lot of women to deal with that. Fanm sa yo po ko kon'n bout ou!!!Why do these women expect so much from you in such a short time?
    DB

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  2. It seems like there is always some "shawty" doing something to you. Has it ever crossed your mind that the problem may simply be you? Maybe you need to take a better look at the kind of women you invite into your world. Being the "perfectionist" that you are it's surprising that you always go for the "mediocre" relationships.

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  3. AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!I LOVE THAT ONE!

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  4. Anonymous 2 eventhough it makes some sense that one always evaluates ONESELF as well in any relationship but I don't think you can conclude from these blogs that the blogger "always" go for "mediocre" relationships(unless you know him personally but oh well we're talking about the blogger and the blogs).

    From reading these blogs, I think the blogger's relationships have been quite adventurous and intriguing. I wish I was the object of his affection in one of these stories. lol.
    Keep in mind too in this particular piece he was not talking about a relationship, he's talking about someone he's simply getting to know and yes Shawty went overboard.(In my opinion that is, unless B made some false promises and misled the poor girl)

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  5. Baby it is time for you to stop with those boring relationships. We have to talk seriously, you need someone to take care of you. OK. You know who it is. LUV
    J.J

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  6. Who's to say I don't know him personally? Any who, isn't it obvious there's a pattern going on where he's constantly being wronged by some shawty? Obviously he needs to re-evaluate the type of people or in his case women that he likes to invite into his life! We can't say for sure if the girl went overboard because we're only hearing his side of the story. I'm pretty sure there was more to it.

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  7. lol. anonymous. If you know him personally I hope you're not one of the "Shawties."
    I agree we're only hearing his side and of course it's all positive. So B, what parts of your blogs are fiction or non-fiction? Please do share, would you allow these shawties to defend themselves and give us their sides of the stories. lol.
    We'll be able to give more constructive feedback then.[wink]

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  8. See, thats the problem with you kid. You're always attracted to these classless hoes ki panse bouda yo pa santi.

    A lot of these women you panse they're the shit and like to give young brothers ultimatum.

    After what you told me about this situation man, I can't believe she would scoop that low. I was beginning to have a lot of respect for her and I know i got on you for your actions, but after reading all that shit man, I am just speechless. She's disgusting.

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  9. Maybe you are not being honest with your feelings B. I don't think all these women are wrong.

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