- “I just wanna go home and get under my cover”
- “Word! Can I join you?”
- “of course, but I am going to sleep though”
- “I am not sure if I can just sleep if I am to lay next to you”
- “your buttocks, tits and lips would be prime locations to touch and feel”
- “cute”
- “all that before the first date?”
- “that is the first date”
So that’s a conversation between myself and this very fascinating young lady. Now is it possible that a man would want to hit it before he takes her out on that very first date? Does it matter if we have sex before we go out on our first date?
I’ve been in that situation before and on a couple of occasions it has happened. And having had sex prior to the first date didn’t change the course of the relationship. I think it could happen to just anyone especially if we do not live near each other. For example, say I am 20-30 miles away and I happen to be in your area, my first thought would be to give you a call and ask if I can stop by. Once I stop by, because we haven’t seen each other in a while and because we’re overly attracted to each other, our hands wouldn’t want to stay off each other. It’s not like I stopped by to get some, but due to the circumstances, there’s a greater chance for something to happen; whether we both wanted it or not.
Your thoughts!
2021-2022 Season Finale
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2 years ago
I have done this before and i don't think it matters if you have sex prior to the first date or not. I needed to be fucked so he came over, fucked me real well and then cooked me breakfast. That was our first date, he's now the father to my 2 kids, husband of 5 years and i am loving it.
ReplyDeletelol, i don't think it matters at all, we are adult and we have urges and we have to take care of our needs.i don't see why it should change the relationship matter because it was the attractions that got us in that position in the first place. regarding of sex in the first date or the 3 months rules, if it was meant to be , it's going to happen.
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on the timeframe... I have had sex with someone before we went out on a date because they didn't live in the same city... we had talked for months... so by the time they were in town... the sexual tension was heightened so much that a date didnt really matter
ReplyDeletebut if this is someone you just met... you should not be talking about sex already... and a date should be mandadtory
Sex before the first date is okay.
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we have been talking over the phone cause there's a distance between us.
(so it's like we already know each other on some level.)
THEN AGAIN IT CAN HAPPEN IF THERE'S A REALY STRONG SEXUAL ATTRACTIONS.
Sex on the first date only matters when one of the two individuals can control the attraction or the chemistry that exists between them.
ReplyDeleteAttraction is stronger than your thoughts and it's almost uncontrollable. You may not plan on having sex on or before the first date, or even think or say otherwise, but when reality hits, it's altogether a different ballgame.
Been there, done that with no regret.
I have not done it yet..but it seems like it would be a benefit to have sex before an actual first date...if it is a long distance relationship, then it will help both parties decide if they should continue in pursuing a relationship with each other...if the sex is good, then continue, if it sucks, then you both do not have to bother even going on a date!!!!
ReplyDeletewhat ever happened to self-control and will power? what about discretion and respect? Does love and marriage mean something to mankind anymore?
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ReplyDeleteI don't think sex prior to the first date has anything to do with respect, marriage or love for that matter. It's all about 2 individuals who have made a decision to take a non-traditional path with their relationship
I agree with Eb the celeb, i think its a circumstancial act
ReplyDeleteMy opinion is that it all depends on the individuals; if we are both mature about it then cool. If the attraction is strong and
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