It’s arguable to say that everyone has been through a bad relationship. Everyone has been through one those where things seem to perfect at the beginning and by the time the relationship reach its climax, everything just ascend to ground zero. I’m one of those who have been through a couple of those rough relationships, I must admit though, during the good times, everything was peachy. But when it was bad, it sunk real low. It was a tale of two end;
Just the other day I was thinking about the things that were said to me and this is verbatim “now I can say that I was the one who messed it up.” Those words are supposed to make me feel better because for so long I thought I had done something wrong. I had thought of every scenario, I revisited our last conversation and I couldn’t come up with anything. But when I heard those words, it made me feel worse. Because this woman was always telling me how much she cares and how much she loves, so now why would you mess everything up on purpose? “I am just messed up, you wouldn’t understand B”. I bet she thought I would be feeling better after that last line but no, why would I ? My thinking was, if I am supposed to be He that you want or feel like you need, then why didn’t you discuss your issues with me? Why must you tell me now after all this time??? What reaction was she expecting?
I admit we had some issues but who doesn’t? All relationships go through them. Sometimes it’s a matter of who can put up the most with each others crap. “if I were more patient and flexible, it would have worked,” she said. I am still shaking my head about that one… Patience is a virtue, some has, some don’t. I’ve learned my lessons though, can’t everything be all peachy and gravy when you want them to. Sometimes you must go through the rough patches just so you can appreciate the better days…
Better days are so near…I can feel it…
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2 years ago
Better days are soon to come for real. I am glad you acknowledge that. I can't speak for everyone but I know what's it like to have expectations and to be let down. I know what it means to give your heart to someone and to find out in the long run that you never fully had theirs. However I won't and I refuse to have these minor bumps in the road to keep me from pursuing promising relationships with people. As much as it may hurt, I still manage to look at these mishaps as nothing more than learning experiences, because I have managed to learn from them and they have managed to reveal parts of me (good and bad) that I never knew existed. You'll be alright as long as you keep that positive attitude that "Sometimes you must go through the rough patches just so you can appreciate the better days".
ReplyDeleteThat's every aspect of life, not everything in life is peachy and easy.when we get through rough roads, that's what makes us appreciate better days, sometimes even life. Imagine if we didnt go through hard time, what would we think of life? every hardship overcomed is a testimony of a person's charater and how strong a person is. You have not buckle, stay strong. DB
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