A Quarter Century (Part 3)

For the past 5 months, I’ve had a lot of different, interesting, and fun times with women. (What guy out there has not?). Breaking down every relationship whether serious or not is meant for a biography and blogs are not meant for that length of story. Keeping it short and sweet works best. The flings were probably the sweetest and the memories are gonna' warm my bones when my sexual machinery is dead and I can't see beyond the length of my arm. Most of the flings involved Sistas and were based on Lust more than anything. We saw what we wanted at the time and jump on it. (Literally). No strings.....no regrets....no ties. Was it a cool thing to do?

To the moralists out there maybe not, but it was still a lot of fun!.Most Brothers face the issue of non-black women (White and Latina) are some points in their lives and I was no exception. Did I cross that line?....You betcha. Seeing Latinas and White chicks were no big deal because I was raised among them and considered them to be like family. My first heartthrob was a Latina.... Some Sistas frown upon Brothers seeing White women because they feel that there are too many fine black women out there still looking for a Brotha' to hook up with and we should be spending our time concentrating on them. Point noted and taken. But suppose you meet someone that you really like...She likes you. She is smart, funny, sweet, kind, and overall nice. The only 'flaw' is her skin in white, her hair blonde, and her eyes blue. Why bypass her because she is not black?.The spring fling that I had with this one woman was a positive and warm experience.

Would I do it again if the situation arose?......Yes, 'cause it wasn't based on color, just mutual attraction. But once it ended, I went back to Sistas. I didn't stay in that camp too long. (lol).
My other relationships leading to today, the 1st of June, 06, have been fun and not so meaningful. I am simply not into getting serious with anyone right now; I have endured way too much. I like being a bachelor 'cause it offers a lot more freedom and I can walk at anytime I desire. I've have several women tell me to my face that they can change me and soon after they get to know me, they realize that I ignore their signals. Most of them envied my status....What else you want to throw at me? I don't see myself living with a woman. You got your place....I got mine....We can get together, but living together is not an option.

So as I look back on these last 25 years, it has been fun and I really did enjoy my birthday party. I got looks and smiles and yes, it stroked my considerable ego. My sex drive is crazy, people say it’s going to get worst since I am now entering the prime of my life. I won’t be chasing any skirts but I love women though...Love being around them...Love bedding them.....My good looks and easy going personality is gonna' help me in having women that love to frolic under the sheets....I'm not talking about sexing everything in a skirt....That easy I am not...I am looking for light stuff...fluff...I've done the serious route and found it wanting.....I've wanted to get married but I don’t want to go into that route anymore. I want to meet someone but until then I am going to enjoy the next 25.

The end of the quarter century journal entry…